tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39308190227100403872024-03-12T23:12:49.661-07:00Two Happy, Crazy MormonsA good place to complete your research if you're trying to learn how to be more like us. A bad place for unbiased opinions, meat recipes, or discussions about aeronautics.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.comBlogger151125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-37572270404001772442014-07-27T20:31:00.001-07:002014-07-27T20:31:14.000-07:00A different kind of growth spurt After Miles's bath every night, we put on his lullaby CD* and snuggle for a few minutes before we put him in his crib for the night. I have a routine: whether he's awake (usually) or asleep, when I hear "Schlaf, Kindlein, Schlaf" I know cuddle time is over and it's time to put him down. He will fuss for a bit, mostly protesting that we are out of his line of vision, and within minutes [most nights], will be peacefully asleep. <div>
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Tonight, however, was different. I was holding him as usual, rocking to the lullabies, as his eyes were getting heavy. His blinks became slower, his eyes opening less and less each time, as the rest of his perfect little face began to relax as well. His mouth opened in a crooked little yawn, and he melted into my arms, growing heavier with each deepening breath. He took a few sucks from a phantom bottle (or breast?), falling further into sleep. </div>
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I found myself overcome with love. I wanted to ball him back up into the tiny little cantaloupe he used to be when he lived inside of me, and tuck him away inside my belly all over again. I wanted to hold him there forever, "Schlaf, Kindlein, Schlaf" be damned!, and never, ever, ever let him grow or change any more than he already has. I wept. </div>
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Why do I love him so much when he is asleep? He is such a busy toddler during the day: always rearranging our apartment (he seems to think that the items from our Recycling bin should be peppered around the apartment rather than gathered together in the bin, for example), eating things he shouldn't (e.g., cat food), or trying to build his expertise as a climber (he is part mountain goat). These moments are frustrating, to be sure, but I think it's too simple to say that's why. </div>
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Because it's also while he's awake that he gives hugs (so many!), shares all his snacks and toys with us, plays along with our silly jokes (I'm sure my jumping around the corner a million times isn't <i>really</i> that startling or funny, but it always gets a reaction!), and gives us that giggle that makes whatever it is that we were worrying about a moment ago a thing of no consequence. It's while he's awake that we see him learning new things every day. It's while he's awake that we see him turning into the new and ever-changing version of himself, that we are fascinated by his growth and development. So why do I love him so much, lying there, heavy in my arms? </div>
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He doesn't <i>have </i>to do anything for me to love him. In fact, even though he does so many adorable, fun, and amazing things every day, those distract me from seeing <i>him.</i> The infant I met 13 months ago had very few of the skills my busy toddler now exhibits, yet I loved him, too. And when I see that toddler sprawled across my lap, his beautiful dark lashes guarding those green-brown eyes, his mouth in a perfect, tiny little pout, and his button nose punctuating such innocence, such <i>magnificence . . . </i>I also remember the tiny newborn version of him. We knew nothing about him, and yet, we loved him. When he sleeps, there is nothing else to distract us from <i>him. </i>And each time I catch a glimpse of him dozing, his breathing deep and measured, or hear him sigh contentedly in his sleep, my love for him grows. </div>
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I suppose it will (and must) continue to grow, to accommodate bigger challenges as well as bigger triumphs. My love will need to grow so that the first time he decorates the walls with crayon, or gets sent to the principal's office, or gets escorted home by the police, I will be fully equipped to love <i>that </i>version of my sweet son. It will need to grow so that when he finally learns how to say, "I love you, Mama," or picks a bouquet of "flowers" / weeds from our yard for me, or dedicates his Nobel prize to his father and me, that my heart will be ready to accept all that love. </div>
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And I think that's why, when he sleeps, I feel so much love for him. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-42962207925855591512014-04-13T16:06:00.002-07:002014-04-13T16:06:45.497-07:00Chubby Girl, Running (Part II)--I Ran 13.1 Miles and All I Got Was This Lousy T-shirtOne week ago today, I ran the Big D Half-Marathon. 13.1 miles. I did that. <div>
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It was cold and rainy (48F and threatening thunderstorms, to be exact), and before the race started, it wasn't even clear if it would go on. But it did, and so did we. </div>
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Training for a half-marathon is hard. We trained through winter, and while Texas winters are not as bad as many places, there were still days getting out was just hard. There were days with ridiculous wind that knocked over the jogging stroller (sans baby, thankfully) that forced our long run inside--135 laps around the indoor track. There were days that the ground was covered in ice, forcing us again to that indoor track. (It's really not as bad as it seems--pretty good people watching, plus the added benefit of that smug feeling when you've outlasted everyone else at the track). </div>
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When you're training for a distance run, you will likely hear a lot of people say, "Oh, wow. I could <i>never </i>do that." I used to be one of those people. I remember a girl I met in my undergrad who was training for a marathon, who said, "<i>Anyone </i>can run a marathon. If you can walk, you can do a marathon." I thought she was nuts. Surely she didn't mean <i style="font-weight: bold;">anyone. </i>There must be concessions for chubby girls whose thighs rub together. Anyone but them. </div>
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But here I am to tell you sincerely, if I can do it, <i style="font-weight: bold;">ANYONE can do it. </i>My thighs still rub together--and I ran a half-marathon. To further illustrate this point: when I first started running with Andy, I started a run/walk program that had me running 20-30 seconds for every 2 minutes of walking. And after those 20 seconds, I was panting, my heart was pounding, and I felt like I was going to die. I remember the first time I ran for a full 30 minutes--another rainy day--and I thought I had conquered the world. Even at that point, if you'd told me I'd run a half-marathon, I would probably think you were nutzo. </div>
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In any case, my 13.1 is still only the SECOND most difficult thing I've done in my life. Interestingly enough, the FIRST most difficult thing I've done is something that way, way more people do than running a half-marathon. To further illustrate this point, allow me to present a poorly-made Venn diagram: </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-54681819101414275952014-03-02T08:16:00.000-08:002014-03-02T08:16:59.164-08:00Chubby Girl, Running When Andy and I had been married for less than a year, we got a flier in the mail about Team in Training--a fundraising program for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, wherein its participants raise funds while also training for a distance race. Andy was very excited--I was mildly interested. So, we went to a meeting at a local restaurant, and got the information. <div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-70847846350344565532013-10-31T16:26:00.000-07:002013-10-31T16:26:11.424-07:00If You Can't Stand The Heat, Move the Laminator Out of The Workroom Where The 20 Crockpots AreHappy Halloween. <br />
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I'm a lame parent. I haven't posted Miles's progress in a while, but he can roll both ways now. He has little babble-conversations with us, laughs a lot, and smiles a LOT. He sleeps through the night (although, lately, he's been opting out of that in favor of snuggles / nursing time), and he's pretty much the best baby that ever there was. But not writing my doting page anywhere near his month-days makes me lame. <br />
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Even lamer: today is his first Halloween, and we are staying home. He is wearing a white onesie. But, with Andyface doing his Alternative Teacher Certification program in the evenings, I just couldn't bring myself to put in the effort to get him dressed up just to go to the church Trunk-or-Treat, and then leave after 15 minutes because I was bored and didn't have anyone to talk to. So, sorry, Miles. <br />
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Normally, I'm not a competitive person. I'm way too much of a people-pleaser to do that. <br />
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When it comes to <b>food</b>, however, I am secretly very, very, <i>very </i>competitive. Or maybe not so secretly. Food is something I do (I think) quite well. For me, every potluck is a competition, and I get my feelings hurt if my food doesn't get eaten. <br />
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Unfortunately, we bit off a bit more than we could chew, and none of our entries actually made it to the table in time to be judged. The two pies didn't have time to properly set, and so we just ended up being really bitter about the whole situation. We knew, just <i>knew</i>, that if we had had our chili on the table in time, it would have won. Alas. <br />
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We were angry about it for a good two weeks, even then calming down only enough to face people in the ward without wanting to punch them in the face. Still, when someone would reference the chili cook-off, we would fume (quietly, to ourselves). <br />
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Yet, when I saw the sign-up for the cook-off this year, I had to enter. Because it's FOOD, and I do food. I'm new at this school, and I have to make it known that I'M GOOD AT FOOD. They have to be like, "Oh, blah blah blah, <i><b>food?</b></i> You should ask RACHEL. She'll know what to do about FOOD." They have to be like, "Oh, Rachel brought the Crock Pot this week, so you <b><i>know</i></b> it's gonna be stellar."<br />
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Since we welcomed Miles into our family a little more than three months ago, a lot has happened.<br />
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We moved when he was 2 weeks old.<br />
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Andyface went back to work after his paternity leave.<br />
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I quit my job at Heart House, though doing so made me really sad.<br />
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The grant funding Andy's job wasn't renewed, so...<br />
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Andy was laid off (last day of work is October 4), so...<br />
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I decided to re-enter the workforce, working full-time as a bilingual teacher's aide in an elementary school (first day was September 9--so far, so good!).<br />
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We went to Pittsburgh.<br />
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Also, both our cats got tapeworms, and Annie-cat almost died from hepatic lipidosis. <br />
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Life just doesn't stand still. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-37675543370055418872013-08-12T08:10:00.000-07:002013-08-12T08:10:04.733-07:002 months?!Guys, my calendar is broken. I don't know how a calendar stops working properly, but obviously that's what happened, because there is NO WAY Miles could be 2 months old. Just not possible.<br />
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At "two months", Mr. Nugget Man spends a lot more time awake and alert, smiling, cooing, chuckling at who-knows-what (Uncle Jonathan's fingers are really NOT that funny to me, but I guess I just don't get the joke), and being more like a Cute Baby than a crying potato. <br />
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<i>Miles at 2 months. 12 lbs., 8 oz. / 23" / 39cm head circumference. </i></div>
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He's smack in the middle for height and head, but 75% for weight. Chubby bunny. That explains why he's wearing 3-6 month clothes.<i> </i>He's also busting out of his size 2 diapers, on account of his massive thighs. I think he (like his mother) carries most of his weight in his thighs. </div>
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Hobbies include gazing at lights while contemplating the mysteries of the universe, reading books, punching the owl on his bouncy chair and laughing at it (cruel, but okay . . .), peeing (and sometimes pooping!) during diaper changes and laughing (sick sense of humor, this one), and tummy time. He can hold his head, push up on his hands while arching his back, and <i>definitely</i> kick his little legs. It looks like he <i>wants</i> to crawl, and sometimes I think he gets mad that he just can't do it yet. He's super-strong, though (when he flexes his legs, I can see definition in his quads, even through all his delicious baby chub), so I'm sure he'll be there before we know it. <br />
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Oh, and cuddling. He <i>loves</i> cuddling.<br />
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Another new hobby is the Blanket Game, a precursor to Peek-a-Boo. We cover his face with a blanket, wait a minute, and watch him wiggle and squirm until he gets his face uncovered again. He laughs, and smiles, and looks just a little bit relieved. It's awesome--I'll try and get a video up for the full effect. <br />
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We also discovered his Crazy Eyes. Anytime he goes from a light area to a dark area (or we turn off a light, or pull the shade over his stroller, etc.), his eyes get all wide and crazy. Hilarious. </div>
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He farts and burps with the power of men more than 10 times his size. Be not ashamed, little Miles! Blow like the wind! </div>
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<i>Miles and Yunus-cat. </i></div>
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He now outweighs both cats, too. When he first came home, we'd pick up the cats and say, "Wow, this cat is so heavy!" Now they feel really light. (They also like to picked up a lot more now, since they're starved for attention and affection.) One night, we were giving Miles a bath, and he was not into it. While he was crying, Yunus came into the bathroom to see what was happening. He put his paws up on the bathtub, looked at Miles, and then bit Andy on the elbow. Maybe he thought we were drowning the kid? Or he just felt for Miles, since we all know how cats feel about baths. In any case, it was funny and kind of sweet. </div>
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<i>Miles (2 weeks) and Yunus. </i></div>
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Most happily (for mom and dad, I mean!), sleep seems to be coming easier these days. He'll put himself to sleep for naps, and there is less of a struggle at bedtime, too. And last night--miracle of miracles!--he slept through his 3:30am feeding! He got almost 7 hours of continuous sleep, which is his record to date. I'm way into that. <br />
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Anyway, he's a great baby, and getting more and more fun and interactive every day. <br />
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We love you, Miles! Keep up the good work. :-)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-71949062663203289232013-07-15T16:24:00.001-07:002013-07-15T16:24:25.010-07:00Month 1: A Retrospective <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
Miles was born (over) one month ago now. </div>
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He's a good baby. </div>
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He likes to snuggle, he likes his bouncer, and he likes rocking in the rocking chair. </div>
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He <i>hates</i> pooping. </div>
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. . . but he is very advanced in his farting. </div>
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It honestly sounds like a grown-up fart. </div>
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Like, a sound-effect for a stupid kids' show kind of grown-up fart. Impressive. </div>
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Today, he (accidentally) blew his first raspberry, too. I know--he's talented. </div>
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We're very proud. </div>
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He is strong: he's been lifting his head since he was one day old. Now, he enjoys tummy time so he can work on his planks and mountainclimbers. No pain, no gain. </div>
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He was a puffy baby. </div>
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With surprisingly Asian-y eyes. </div>
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But he was nonchalant about it all. </div>
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Also, it was a busy month besides. We moved to a new apartment when he was 2 weeks old (because we're crazy, and mashochists). That kind of threw off the groove we'd been pretending we had, but we're sort of getting back into it now. It was crazy--he didn't sleep much, and he was pretty grumpy. But, we have finally (somewhat) settled in, at least to a certain level of functionality. </div>
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The other thing that happened was . . . Miles got a brand new cousin! </div>
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Asa (son to my bro and SIL) was born on July 5th, after making lots of trouble for his momma. We are going to FORCE these two to be best friends. DO IT, or else, kiddos. </div>
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It's hard to believe that it's already been a month. Pretty soon, he'll be needing that college fund. So . . . I guess we should get on top of setting that up . . . </div>
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1. A friend congratulated me on the "baby explosion."
There was, quite literally, an explosion in the moment of childbirth.
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2. There are a lot of bodily fluids you may not be
aware of. I think I counted at least 8 of them which have become a part
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3. If you ever want to get stitches in your va-jay-jay . . . don't. It's just not as fun as it sounds. </div>
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Sometimes, your boobs feel like they are full of rocks. And other
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5. Natural childbirth (by the way, did yinz know I
did this thing without drugs??) is cool, because you can impress people
the day after <i>just by walking around </i>and not being a drugged-up zombie. </div>
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6. Natural childbirth is <i>not</i> cool, because IT HURTS LIKE
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7. After labor, a cherry Italian ice might taste really, really, REALLY good. </div>
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8. The first poop after delivery isn't as bad as
everyone says. But it will feel like an accomplishment. And stool
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actual advice: eat something before you go to the hospital. You need
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10. It's all worth it. </div>
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I feel like through the whole experience, I've learned to have greater respect for this body of mine. I've spent the better part of my 28 years hating it for various reasons, and only in the past couple of years or so have I even begun to accept that it is a strong and good body, capable of doing lots of things. Childbirth has made me even more aware of this fact. </div>
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Since I had only a vague idea that I wanted to go natural "as long as I could stand it," I was surprised to learn that my breaking point came very near the end, anyway. And had I <i>known</i> that fact, I certainly could have withstood the pain. Knowing that the end is near makes all the difference, when you're talking about pain. </div>
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Early morning on Tuesday, June 11 (a week before his due date), we welcomed Miles Takeo Richardson into the world.<br />
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Our birth story really begins on Friday (June 7). That was my last day of work at the after-school program, and I was so excited that I'd made it to the end of the year without having had him. I was convinced (by early signs of progress, as well as a gut feeling) that Nugget would be coming early, so after work on Friday, both Andy and I felt hopeful that he would make his debut sometime during the weekend. <br />
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So, on Friday, Andy's office closed early, and he came over to celebrate the last day of work with my kiddos, and help out with our ice cream sundae party, as well as to be there, with the car, "just in case." I had been having frequent Braxton-Hicks contractions (also called practice contractions--a mild tightening sensation in my belly), and we were totally unsure what labor would look like, so we'd been taking a lot of "just in case" precautions. After that, we celebrated a Pizza Friday at Cici's Pizza (no shame, y'all), because our childbirth teacher told us to eat lots of carbs when we thought labor was coming. We went for a long walk at a park, looping around a lake, during which time I felt more Braxton-Hicks contractions. Strangely, though, they were growing stronger, and coming at regular intervals. We took a few extra laps around the lake, just to see what was happening. The contractions kept coming, so we were convinced this was IT. <br />
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Unfortunately, as soon as we stopped walking, the contractions stopped. False Alarm #1. <br />
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On Saturday, we decided to celebrate Andy's birthday. Being the crazy human that I am (perhaps also trying once again to jump-start labor), I agreed to go kayaking with him, and for another walk (maybe <i>this</i> time??) around White Rock Lake. <br />
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(I realize that sounds crazy, but let me assure you that this was actually the <i>least</i> insane of the drafted "Andy's birthday weekend" plans, which included participating in a 5k an hour away from the hospital / our home.)<br />
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Long story short, we kayaked, we walked, we picnicked with our good friend Tiffany, we came home, we met up with our dear friends Scott & Vanessa, and came home totally pooped (at least, I was!), and still: no baby. Maybe he was too comfy in there. <br />
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Sunday morning (Andyface's actual birthday) was False Alarm #2, Wherein Rachel Imagined Her Water Had Broken. Turns out it was just a little bit of urinary incontinence! Ohhh, third trimester! You think you're so cute. Other than that, Sunday was largely uneventful as far as pregnancy goes. We did go to Andy's mom's place to celebrate his birthday. <br />
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While there, we watched The Life of Pi. Good flick, if you haven't seen it.<br />
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Nothing really happened on Monday, except that (after such a busy weekend) I was really tired and slept a lot. I also cleaned a bathroom, which felt like it should have deserved a medal. <br />
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<b><u>If you don't want to hear the gory details of our childbirth story, just skip to the end with the cute pictures of our little Nugget.</u></b><br />
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As far as my "birth plan" goes, there really wasn't one, except the vague goal to go natural as long as I could stand it--at least until I was dilated to 6cm? It seemed reasonable to me. I wanted to have the freedom to walk around, bounce on the ball, take a shower . . . NOT be chained to the bed with the epidural and the catheter. <br />
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So, Monday night about midnight, I got up to pee (as per usual, since Nugget's head was smushing my bladder), and noticed one of the signs of labor there in my underpants. I told Andy when I got back in bed, and he (still mostly asleep) said, "RICHARD PARKER," rolled over, and went back to bed. <br />
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At 1:30, I awoke to a gush of fluid: water broken. Game ON. Knowing we would probably have hours and hours until things really started going, we took the opportunity to finish straightening up the house, switch out the laundry, feed the kitties, take a shower . . . </div>
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We were at the hospital about 2:30. It took a while to check in, do paperwork, and get things going in triage, but we determined that, YES, my water had broken, and I was dilated to 4cm upon arrival. This was really going down. By about 3:30 we were in our Labor / Delivery / Recovery room, where we met Shannon, our incredibly awesome nurse. She introduced herself, and said, "I've already delivered two babies so far today, and my shift ends at 7. So, you could be my third!" Ha, ha! Everyone had a good chuckle, since we knew the likelihood of this was slim as it was a first baby and we would more likely be in there for 12-1350 more hours before a baby came. <br />
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By this time, my contractions were starting to get a little closer together, and picking up in strength, too. <br />
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"What is the maximum acceptable level of pain for you, on a scale of 1-10?" asked Shannon. <i>Eight? </i><br />
"And where are you now, on a scale of 1-10?" <i>Five? Six? </i>I have no idea. There have not been that many occasions in my life wherein I have experienced my "maximum acceptable level of pain," thankfully. <br />
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So, Shannon left, assuring us that she would be nearby, monitoring us from the nurse's station, and if we needed anything, we should buzz. We were waiting to hear back from the OB to see if she thought it would be okay for me to walk around, since there were some medical concerns. I'd told myself that I wanted to wait and see if that were a possibility before asking for the epidural, but suddenly, I was in a great amount of pain. <br />
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Actually, the pain itself wasn't the worst part. I felt nauseous, clammy, light-headed, and my pulse was racing. It was altogether unpleasant. In between contractions, I told Andy I was ready for the epidural. Unfortunately, the anesthesiologist was helping someone else down the hall, so I had to sit through a few more contractions without, while Shannon assured me that "relief is on the way." She went to go check something outside of the room, and came back a few moments later, walking quickly, and asking (with a certain urgency in her voice) if I'd felt compelled to push. Baby had come off of the fetal monitor, and she suspected that it was because he'd already moved down and was getting ready to go. <br />
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9+ cm. <br />
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I could still get the epidural for pushing purposes, or I could just get to it and have the baby. "I just want to get this baby out," I said. <br />
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The anesthesiologist walked in. "She's at a 9 right now, so we're just gonna have this baby," said Shannon. The anesthesiologist, looking somewhat shell-shocked, replied, "Well . . . I don't blame you!" and left. Game on. Really, really, ON. <br />
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The OB still hadn't arrived. I heard Shannon on the phone, "Yeah, we're not messing around in here. She's at a 9, and we're about to have this baby. How long does it take Dr. Pero to get here?" She was so decisive. It was awesome. She left again, in a flurry, trying to get everything ready in case the baby came before the OB arrived. At this point, I was feeling the urge to push. Andy said later he was scared that he'd have to catch the baby by himself. <br />
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Shannon came back in. "Try not to push--just blow it out. Dr. Pero's on her way." Easier said than done. <br />
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I started to push. <br />
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Shannon was a great coach, giving me feedback as to what was moving Baby along, and helping me to see the light at the end. "He's right there! I can see his head." <br />
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32 minutes (or so) later, Dr. Pero was putting on her gloves, and 4 minutes later, Nugget was born. <br />
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Five hours of labor, and 36 minutes of pushing. <br />
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My next baby may just fall right out. <br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-13730532570168930322013-05-29T07:31:00.000-07:002013-05-29T07:41:33.559-07:00IdentityI just discovered the existence of a book entitled <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Under-Her-Skin-Experience-America/dp/1580051170"><i>Under Her Skin: How Girls Experience Race in America,</i></a> by Pooja Makhijani. From the book description on goodreads, the book "<span id="freeTextContainer11023618651980163662">includ[es] the
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<span id="freeTextContainer11023618651980163662">I say "ambiguous" on purpose. If you know me, you probably know my racial background: I am half-Japanese on my mother's side. This is not, however, apparent to anyone who does <i>not </i>know me. My proof is in how regularly I am asked, in terms ranging from very vague to very blunt, what I "am." (For the record, I prefer when people are straightforward. If you ask me vaguely, while I know exactly what you <i>really</i> want to ask, I will answer you vaguely.) </span><br />
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<span id="freeTextContainer11023618651980163662">Growing up half-Japanese in Texas made me somewhat of a cultural anomaly. Most often, I would be classified as "Chinese (light skin, squinty eyes)," though occasionally I might be identified as "Mexican (brown skin, dark hair)." Never white, though. And while I'd been born and raised in white-bread America, eating corny dogs and playing hopscotch with American-born, English-speaking parents, somehow, <i>that</i> was never the part of me that interested people. They saw in me something different--which, I might add, is every child's worst nightmare--and were quick to point it out. "Foreigner!" said my sixth grade crush, bringing me to tears. At that point in my life, I didn't see anything Japanese about myself when I looked in the mirror. I didn't even know how people could figure out I was Asian just by looking at me. </span><br />
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By high school, and through college, I had decided to run with it. I made myself the butt of many jokes. I called myself the "Cracker Jap," I joked (with my half-Korean friend) about starting a band called "Soy Sauce on the Side," and I claimed that the Weezer song "El Scorcho" was written about me (to be fair, I still kind of think that). I (quite successfully) pretended to be related to twin brothers in my major solely because we were all half-Japanese. <br />
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Now, in my adult life, I hardly think of my race until someone brings it up. I am culturally very American, so far-removed from my great-grandparents who immigrated to the United States so many years ago. Yet still, it is a part of who I am. As we consider names for our firstborn son, we want to honor that part of my heritage and give him, as my parents gave me, a Japanese middle name. It's a small tribute, but he won't likely carry obvious physical evidence of his heritage, nor will I be able to pass on much of the cultural heritage. But I hope that our son will be better able to embrace what makes him different and unique among his peers than I was in my youth. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-38158407275626647462013-04-17T06:56:00.001-07:002013-04-17T06:56:34.893-07:00If-When there are so many awful things happening around us, it's easy to become cynical about the world, and to lose faith in humanity. Andy and I have been especially reflective as we consider bringing our little Nugget into this world--a world of senseless violence and hate. It's easy to forget that the world is also full of hope, love, and goodness. It can be difficult to remember that these virtues still exist in the world today. <br />
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I awoke yesterday with a poem in my head--and this is the life that I want Nugget to have.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-55263265385427670682013-03-15T12:08:00.001-07:002013-03-15T12:17:09.478-07:00Big Bend Babymoon Bonanza One of the benefits of working in a program that follows a school district calender is that, even as a grown-up, I still have a Spring Break. And, luckily, Andyface had some vacation time that needed using . . . so we decided to steal away to Big Bend National Park in (very very) southwest Texas. This is very likely our last grand adventure to precede the huge adventure known as parenthood. <br />
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Our original plan had been to explore the Pacific Northwest, a place neither of us have been, but are very interested in. Unfortunately, what with the Sequester and all (what? you don't receive government funding for your vacations?), we realized we should downscale. Next option was a possible road trip to the Grand Canyon, though if we made that drive, we'd barely have any time to enjoy the Canyon itself. So, after kicking around a few more ideas, we landed on the winner: Big Bend National Park. A mere 8 hours from home, cheap, and impressive.<br />
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I'd been with my family as a kid, but Andy had never been. Despite that Spring Break is the busiest time of year for the park and all the reservable campsites had already been spoken for, we decided to try our luck and head that way anyway. With a forecast of highs in the mid-70s and lows in the mid-40s, we just couldn't pass it up. <br />
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I love the way his voice echoes on the canyon. (I used to have this fantasy of being huge and playing my cello sitting on a mountainside, but after hearing that, I think my new fantasy is to play in a canyon.) Read more about Valdez and Boquillas <a href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=16579416">here</a>. Interesting stuff. Apparently, pre-9/11, it was legal to cross like my family and I did years ago. Also, they're soon opening up another <a href="http://www.kpbs.org/news/2013/jan/01/formalizing-border-crossing-boquillas/">formal crossing</a> there. We should have bought some stuff to Stick It To The Man, but we did give Sr. Valdez a donation. </div>
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26 weeks! This was in our 7th mile of hiking for the day. Not gonna lie, one of my favorite moments was when, on one of our hikes, a woman passed with a big smile, and said, "Wow! You're brave. Good for you!" I'm hardcore, y'all. </div>
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It was a much-needed, and thoroughly enjoyed, vacation. We learned a lot (it was only our second camping trip together, after all), and grew closer as a couple. It was so good to be able to reconnect and remember why we love each other, especially as we are facing the big transition ahead. </div>
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Andy and I are big NPR nerds. One of my biggest celebrity crushes is on Ira Glass (host of This American Life), and we listen to more NPR podcasts than any other kind. It's our first radio preset in the car. <br />
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So when our lovely friends Allan and <a href="http://littlewifepowerhouse.wordpress.com/">Jen</a> let us know that they would be unable to attend the live taping of the show "Wait Wait . . . Don't Tell Me," and offered us their tickets, I was so excited. We'd wanted to go to the show, but by the time I'd thought seriously about it, the show was all sold out. Imagine my delight when our opportunity arose again. <br />
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I decided to keep it a secret from Andy. I told him we had a date on Thursday night, and that he would be really excited. His guesses were hilarious. <br />
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So, we listened to them tape the show (you can listen <a href="http://www.npr.org/player/v2/mediaPlayer.html?action=1&t=3&islist=true&id=35&d=02-09-2013">here</a>, if you're interested). There are three panelists, plus hosts Peter Sagal and Carl Kassel. This week's panelists were Paula Poundstone (everyone's favorite), Tom Bodette, and Kyrie O'Conner. (On a sidenote, I wonder how many of you, like me, knew Paula Poundstone first from <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTu1anjaMb8">these</a> spots on PBS.) It was really neat to be there, with (as Peter Sagal said) "every Liberal in the Dallas area," and to see how they do what they do. </div>
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The guest on the show was Erykah Badu, who is a native Dallasite, and absolutely adorable. Did you know she is also a trained doula? I have always liked her very much, but now I kind of have a girl crush on her. Sigh. </div>
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THANKS, A & J, for a great night and good times. We'll bring more cookies when we come to game night SOON. What's your favorite cookie?? </div>
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Not too soon after, my full-time work turned into part-time work, and I took another part-time job at an After School program, working with mostly refugee and immigrant kids in Kindergarten and 1st grade. I loved it. It reminded me a bit of Prospect Park, fulfilling a need to connect with children who have not been quite as blessed as the kids I was serving at my first job. It awakened in me my sense of fulfillment. Eventually, I stepped away from the first job and held only to the second. </div>
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This year, we also took our first camping trip together. We went kayaking. We went to concerts. We saw the Dallas Opera perform the Marriage of Figaro in a simulcast from the new Cowboys Stadium. We had three Christmases. We laughed a lot. We cried some. We ran a 5k. We lost 20 lbs. combined. We found out Andy is related to a legendary mountain man who killed cougars and ate them to acquire their feline powers. It's been a good year.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-38400295648862613892012-12-12T07:25:00.000-08:002012-12-12T07:25:04.062-08:00Where the Buffalo Roam This past weekend, we took a retreat to the Wichita Mountain Wildlife Refuge near Lawton, Oklahoma. Despite the cold (overnight low was 30F) and the wind (gusts up to 35mph), we still managed to have a great time on our first camping trip together. Looks like we'll need to buy a tent after all! <br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-3401800661746018552012-12-01T08:47:00.000-08:002012-12-01T08:47:11.809-08:00FAQsYes, it has been a while since our last update. It certainly hasn't been for lack of fodder for posting, but just that the blog hasn't been the right forum to discuss what has been happening. It has been a whirlwind of change: I started a new job, which meant I was working two jobs and out of the house from 7:15am until 7:00pm daily, and eating lunch in the car between jobs. Then, I subsequently resigned from the first of the two jobs, which cut 40 daily miles off my commute, and lots of stress out of my life. In the midst of all of this . . . <div>
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I am not sure. I've spent a lot of time with children and babies in the past couple of years. I think I must have caught it, like the flu. Also, I'm not sure how the baby transfers from my belly to the little blanket in the stork's mouth. You'll have to ask your mother. </div>
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June 18th. Andy's birthday is on June 9th, and Father's Day is June 16th this year. Oh, and my school year ends June 11th. That puts me at 12 weeks on Tuesday. </div>
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Thanks for asking! I feel fine--insomuch that at times, I don't feel pregnant at all. I haven't been sick once. The most I've felt is a bit of fatigue and some aches and soreness. Also, I feel pretty hungry. </div>
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After our immediate families, the first person I told was my girl Januka, a Bhutanese 65-year-old who speaks very little English. She was my English student in Pittsburgh, and calls me every couple of weeks just to shoot the breeze. She says she wants to come visit me and the baby. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-49959536577531494772012-09-06T14:06:00.005-07:002012-09-06T14:06:55.689-07:00Run for your life! Until a few years ago, I never considered myself as anyone who could run. Running was for skinny people. Fit people. Not chubby girls who used to place themselves strategically on the playground to avoid having to play sports with the other kids. (True story. And speaking of the playground, I first developed body image issues there. Stupid seesaw.)<br />
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Nevertheless, I'm back into my training. I'm doing about 2 miles now, and proud of it. It's hard for a chubby girl to run. You could strap a couple big ol' bags of flour on your back and try it if you don't believe me. <br />
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I digress. I wanted to tell you the story of the very first mile I ever ran. <br />
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I'd been <i>sort of </i>training for a race. Not following a plan, just kind of running when I felt like it, interspersed with walking (and, let's be honest, it was really just mostly walking). It was less than successful. But race day came nonetheless . . .<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-77119551048736274392012-07-08T12:20:00.000-07:002012-07-08T12:20:07.723-07:00Rachel's RageIt's about to get real. <br />
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Today, church made me really angry. <br />
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We've moved to a new place, and that means a new church congregation. Being Mormon means that our congregation has been predetermined for us based on where we live, much like school districts are drawn. So, due to illness, visiting family, and other factors, it was our first week in our new ward.<br />
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The Church and I are not as good friends as we used to be. In high school, there was early morning seminary. At BYU, it was all but unavoidable. In the UNT Singles' Ward, they do a pretty good job of inundating you with activities and Institute classes . . .<br />
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We went to one Institute class when we were in Pittsburgh--unfortunately, the first one we went to was (unofficially) the "stay-at-home Mom" class, so neither of us felt comfortable there, and we never went back. Then, we got busy with work and school, and Institute fell off the radar.<br />
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At the same time, we started to have jobs that required us to work on Sundays, making it impossible for us to go to church for weeks at a time. We fell out of touch with our ward. I think that was the beginning of it. <br />
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As weeks would pass and we would have no contact with our ward, I felt less and less a part of the church at all. Yes, I self-identified as Mormon. Yes, I still held to the basic tenets. But the more time I spent away from the church, the more I realized that my core beliefs were no longer the same as those I'd been taught in Sunday School. <br />
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Anyway, this brings us to today. To a Rachel who is probably less "Mormon" than she's ever been in her life, who is trying to make sense of it all, trying to figure out if she is going to dive back in or run away from everything . . . and who is visiting her new ward for the first time. <br />
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I am an introvert. And I don't just mean that I prefer staying at home and reading to going out and partying. I mean that new people make me really, really, really, REALLY uncomfortable. I don't make eye contact. I try to be unseen. I don't talk, or if I do, I mumble. So, going into a new social situation is already a terrifying experience for me. Add to that the anxiety I felt about trying to figure out where I stand, and what kind of Mormon I'm going to be from here on out, and you might imagine how I was feeling this morning. <br />
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We went unnoticed in sacrament meeting, and snuck into Sunday School with little trouble. But after Sunday School, we were immediately bombarded. "Are you new in the ward? Are you visiting? Are you investigating? Where are you from? Do you live here? Where do you live? What is your address? Are your records here yet? Can we take your picture for the ward directory?" So, in the ten minutes between Sunday School and the third hour classes, I met more people than I cared to on my first day. And was introduced as a new sister in Relief Society. <br />
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"Raise your hand, Rachel, so everyone can see you!" I raised my hand, sheepishly. "No. Higher!" I want to die. I have never felt so uncomfortable. <br />
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As we left, I found myself very angry. I guess I don't take well to being man-handled when I'm already feeling extra-vulnerable. Luckily, though, my rage has been tempered by a tuna melt and some vanilla wafers, so I think I won't go all Hulk on anybody anymore. <br />
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So, how was church for you today? <br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-43644600416335940082012-06-04T18:15:00.000-07:002012-06-04T18:23:29.647-07:00Neglected.I guess we still have a blog. And I also guess that I have news to post thereupon:<br />
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I GOT A JOB! <br />
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I will be teaching preschool music in Frisco, Texas. Full-time. Crazy stuff. <br />
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It means leaving the position I have loved so dearly, the families that I have grown to love so much, and the wonderful, beautiful friends that I have made. It makes me really sad in a lot of ways. Pittsburgh is a great place. I'll miss it terribly. <br />
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However, the choice to take the job came down to the fact that this will get me to where I want to be in the next chapter of my life. It isn't precisely where I want to be, but it will get me there. Also, it puts me in the same zip code as Andy, and a month and a half earlier than planned--a huge plus. <br />
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My emotions are very complex. I'm at once heartbroken and excited. Terrified and confident. Relieved and entirely stressed out. The transition stings. (I still haven't told my students--goodbyes terrify me.)<br />
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So, Andy signed our lease on Saturday. We will be living in downtown Plano, right next to the DART rail station (hooray!). It'll be a change for us to live in a very normal, white-wall, cookie-cutter apartment, and it will not be without its advantages (e.g., a dishwasher, and a washer and dryer in the apartment). We're trying it on for size, as both of us seem to have an affinity to cute, quirky apartments. We'll see how it feels to live in an apartment complex in the suburbs.<br />
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In other news, we adopted a kitty from our friend Zainab, whose name was Dudley until we changed it to Yunus, as an homage to my students at Prospect Park, as well as the lovely lady who handed him over to us. I met him while I was in town over Memorial Day weekend, and he's super-cuddly and sweet. It will be nice to be a forever-home to a kitty this time, since fostering kind of sucks. <br />
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Also, I learned how to hula hoop this weekend, for the first time in my life.<br />
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Needless to say, our lives are moving forward at warp speed. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-60522824471966046422012-04-19T21:37:00.002-07:002012-04-19T21:43:36.044-07:00Misplaced Emotion<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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For the past (almost) four months, Andy and I (and now, just I) have been fostering two adorable kitties (see above). One of my friends at our partner agency at work frantically contacted me, asking how I felt about temporarily taking in two kitties: a client was unable to house them for a time, but didn't want to have to turn them into a shelter, where they would most likely be adopted and she'd never see them again.<br />
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To say I'm a softie when it comes to animals is probably an understatement.<br />
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So, it didn't really take too much convincing, despite the fact that I hadn't consulted Andy (sorry, Andy!) and pets are not allowed in our apartment . . . it was the right thing to do. I couldn't let that woman lose her kitties!<br />
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The terms of our arrangement have always been vague. It might have turned into a permanent home. We didn't have an end date, or have direct contact with the woman. We were told their names, but still don't know which is which. We tried to keep ourselves at arm's length . . .<br />
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. . . and failed. Miserably. It took all of probably 48 hours for us to fall in love with them. And the fact that there was even that much delay came mostly from the fact that the poor kitties were so traumatized by their experience that they hid behind the bookcase for most of that time.<br />
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I knew it was coming, so it didn't come as a surprise. What did surprise me, however, was the intensity of my emotional reaction. <br />
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Keep in mind that six weeks ago, I said goodbye to my husband for 4 1/2 months (with a few visits in between). I love Andy, and I miss him every second, but I wouldn't say our separation has been heartbreaking. This might be attributed to the fact that it's temporary and has a specific end-date, or that I'm trying to pace my loneliness (4 1/2 months is a pretty long time, after all), or that we talk / text / email / Skype / etc. all the time, but if I say so myself, I've been handling it well. For one who tends toward emotional breakdowns, this is saying something.<br />
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I was at work when I got the news about the kitties, so I had to fight back the tears.<br />
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And cried. A lot. Wept, actually. "I can't get the words out because I'm gasping between sobs" kind of crying. <br />
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The cats have been, for me, a symbolic connection to life. I won't say that they are by any means an adequate substitute for my husband, but they wait for me at the door when I come up the stairs to the apartment, they talk to me, they snuggle me, and they show me lots of affection (as I type this, Goatee Kitty is sitting on my tummy, eyes half closed, purring). This meant that I wasn't really alone--and that I didn't actually have to confront my loneliness. <br />
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It looks like now I have to do just that--or find another cat. Hmmm. <br />
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I'm really sad. We've bonded. We've reached the point of ultimate trust, each knowing the other means no harm. And I know them. I love them. <br />
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Now I have to give them back to their real mommy, because that has been the plan all along. Stupid plan! I know--if you love them, you have to be willing to set them free. Blah, blah, blah. <br />
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To make matters worse, one of them just brought me a "gift." Bird head. (Actually, I suppose not having bird heads in my house would be a positive.) <br />
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Maybe it's a parting gift.<br />
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Farewell, sweet kitties. :-( Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-35897427465560151192012-02-19T19:19:00.000-08:002012-02-19T19:19:39.943-08:00Big AnnouncementWell, here it is:<br />
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We're moving back to Texas! Back to DFW, our old stomping grounds. Back to the (general) place where we met and fell in love. Back to the place where our families live. Back to the world of Blue Bell and Pantera and Dubya. <br />
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Andy has secured a job with the International Rescue Committee (IRC), where he served as an AmeriCorps VISTA member before coming out to Pittsburgh. It's a full-time position in Dallas, working with many people he already knows from before, including his former supervisor / mentor. And so, finally, we don't have to worry about what will happen after graduation (at least, that is, <i>Andy </i>doesn't), or that maybe grad school was a mistake, or that we'll just have to spend the rest of our lives biding our time until something happens to come along. <br />
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It feels strange.<br />
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It's the first "career" job either of us has had, and it feels strange to know that it won't just end after a year, or when we graduate, or after a semester, or anything like that. It will be there, indefinitely. So surreal!<br />
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He begins on March 12, and will be flying out on March 9th. We are very excited! <br />
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The sad part of our story is that I will be staying in Pittsburgh until the end of July, to finish out my AmeriCorps service year. I've so enjoyed my time at Prospect Park, and I don't want to abandon my post and put my colleagues in a bind. Besides, the extra few months give me time to earn income while I figure out what to do once I get to Dallas myself. <br />
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So, we'll have 4.5 months of a long-distance relationship. This is the part both Andy and I have been trying to forget. I keep reminding myself that people do this sort of thing (deployments are a good example), and that we have phone calls, emails, Skype, snail-mail, and a million other ways to keep in touch in this day and age, but when I think about coming home to an empty apartment, and not having anyone to talk to after work . . .<br />
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Tears have been shed. But we agree that this is the best for us in the long-run, and it's worth it to both of us. <br />
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<i>[Andy and I have been reading </i>The BFG<i>, a book neither of us have read by one of our favorite writers. The subject matter is quite juvenile, but it's presented in such a charming way that I can't help but love it. I love the creative use of language, and the deep-thinking side of me likes the interest in cultural sensitivity. When I read it aloud, I had to stop in several places because I was laughing so hard. Maybe I'm really just as mature as a fourth grader. Still, I think it's worth sharing.] </i></div>
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"Here is frobscottle!" he cried, holding the bottle up proud and high, as though it contained some rare wine. "Delumptious fizzy frobscottle!" he shouted. He gave it a shake and the green stuff began to fizz like mad.<br />
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"But look! It's fizzing the <i>wrong way!</i>" Sophie cried. And indeed it was. The bubbles, instead of travelling upwards and bursting on the surface, were shooting downwards and bursting at the bottom. A pale green frothy fizz was forming at the bottom of the bottle. <br />
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"What on earth is you meaning <i>the wrong way?</i>" asked the BFG. <br />
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"In our fizzy drinks," Sophie said, "the bubbles always go up and burst at the top." <br />
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"<i>Upwards</i> is the <i>wrong way</i>!" cried the BFG. "You mustn't ever be having the bubbles going upwards! That's the most flushbunking rubbish I ever is hearing!" <br />
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"Why do you say that?" Sophie asked.<br />
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"You is asking me <i>why</i>?" cried the BFG, waving the enormous bottle around as though he were conducting an orchestra. "You is actually meaning to tell me you cannot see <i>why</i> it is a scrotty mistake to have the bubbles flying up instead of down?"<br />
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"You said it was flushbunking. Now you say it's scrotty. Which is it?" Sophie asked politely.<br />
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"Both!" cried the BFG. "It is a flushbunking and a scrotty mistake to let the bubbles go upwards! If you can't see why, you must be as quacky as a duckhound! By ringo, your head must be so full of frogsquinkers and buzzwangles, I is frittered if I know how you can think at all!"<br />
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"Why shouldn't the bubbles go upward?" Sophie asked. <br />
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"I will explain," said the BFG. "But tell me first what name is you calling your frobscottle by?"<br />
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"One is Coke," Sophie said. "Another is Pepsi. There are lots of them."<br />
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"And the bubbles is<i> all </i>going up?"<br />
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"They all go up," Sophie said.<br />
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"Catasterous!" cried the BFG. "Upgoing bubbles is a catasterous disastrophe!"<br />
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"Will you<i> please</i> tell me why?" Sophie said. <br />
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"If you will listen carefully I will try to explain," said the BFG. "But your brain is so full of bugwhiffles, I doubt you will ever understand." <br />
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"I'll do my best," Sophie said patiently. <br />
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"Very well, then. When you is drinking this cokey drink of yours," said the BFG, "it is going straight down into your tummy. Is that right? Or is it left?"<br />
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"It's right," Sophie said. <br />
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"And the <i>bubbles</i> is going also into your tummy. Right or left?"<br />
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"Right again," Sophie said.<br />
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"And the bubbles is fizzing upwards?"<br />
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"Of course," Sophie said.<br />
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"Which means," said the BFG, "that they will all come swishwiffling up your throat and out of your mouth and make a foulsome belchy burp!" <br />
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"That is often true," Sophie said. "But what's wrong with a little burp now and again? It's sort of fun."<br />
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"Burping is filthsome," the BFG said. "Us giants is never doing it." <br />
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"But with<i> your </i>drink," Sophie said,"what was it you called it?"<br />
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"Frobscottle," said the BFG. <br />
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"With frobscottle," Sophie said, "the bubbles in your tummy will be going downwards and that could have a far nastier result." <br />
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"Why nasty?" asked the BFG, frowning. <br />
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"Because," Sophie said, blushing a little, "if they go down instead of up, they'll be coming out somewhere else with an even louder and ruder noise."<br />
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"A whizzpopper!" cried the BFG, beaming at her. "Us giants is making whizzpoppers all the time! Whizzpopping is a sign of happiness. It is music to our ears! You surely is not telling me that a little whizzpopping is forbidden among human beans?"<br />
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"It is considered extremely rude," Sophie said.<br />
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"But you is whizzpopping, is you not, now and again?" asked the BFG. <br />
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"Everyone is whizzpopping, if that's what you call it," Sophie said. "Kings and Queens are whizzpopping. Presidents are whizzpopping. Glamorous film stars are whizzpopping. Little babies are whizzpopping. But where I come from, it is not polite to talk about it."<br />
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"Redunculous!" said the BFG. If everyone is making whizzpoppers, then why not talk about it? We is now having a swiggle of this delicious frobscottle and you will see the happy result." The BFG shook the bottle vigorously. The pale green stuff fizzed and bubbled. He removed the cork and took a tremendous gurgling swig. <br />
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"It's glummy!" he cried. "I love it!" <br />
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For a few moments, the Big Friendly Giant stood quite still, and a look of absolute ecstasy began to spread over his long wrinkly face. Then suddenly the heavens opened and he let fly with a series of the loudest and rudest noises Sophie had ever heard in her life. They reverberated around the walls of the cave like thunder and the glass jars rattled on their shelves. But most astonishing of all, the force of the explosions actually lifted the enormous giant clear off his feet, like a rocket. <br />
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"<i>Whoopee!</i>" he cried, when he came down to earth again. "Now <i>that</i> is whizzpopping for you!"<br />
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-Roald Dahl, <i>The BFG</i><br />
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Part of it, though, is that we're waiting right now, and posts about waiting are not that much fun. Especially if you don't want to talk that much about the thing that has you waiting. We're at the stage in our lives that it could be a lot of things, so go ahead, kids! Let your imaginations run wild. <br />
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It's a quiet Friday afternoon, and I'm sitting on the couch next to two kitties (by the way, we are currently housing two kitties) who are snuggled in the warmth of the sunlight streaming in through the window. It's been an uncharacteristically mild winter so far, much more like the Texas winters I'm used to, so the heat is off in our apartment today. It's beautiful, actually, and I enjoyed my walk to and from the bus station today. The groundhog must have been wrong. <br />
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Work is still going great. Unsolicited hugs and kisses from tiny humans are highly recommended. We were able to participate in Read Aloud with our buddies in the apartment downstairs (South Hills Interfaith Ministry), and it was a lot of fun. I really, really love these families. Check it out:<br />
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Yeah, it's awesome. I am so fortunate! <br />
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I've been practicing a little more (i.e., at all) lately, too. It's funny, though. In a lot of ways, the time away from my instrument has relaxed my playing, so I feel like it's actually easier to play in some respects, even though I'm pretty badly out of shape. I think it's removed some of the anxieties I have about my own playing, and a lot of the negative self-talk that so often came into the practice room with me isn't an issue at the moment, because I can count it a success that I'm behind the instrument at all. The result, then, is that I can focus on dissecting my playing to make it better, which allows me to be more clinical about it than emotionally driven. Pros and cons. Interestingly enough, though, this is probably the first time in my life that I have ever practiced willingly, without any attached (outside) expectations. Maybe not having those expectations is good for me, at least for the moment. The sad thing is that I don't always have time to practice, so even when I want to, I can't always act on it. The allure of the unobtainable, I suppose, may also add to the appeal. <br />
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Anyway, all this talk about practicing is making me want to . . . you know . . . practice. Bye. <br />
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We kicked off our Christmas vacation by building gingerbread houses with our friends the Seegmillers. Cristy's was the bus, Neal built the tower, Andy built the two-story cottage, and I built the "Merry X-mas" house. Good times!<br />
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We went to Texas, and visited our favorite park for some high-adventure box sledding.<br />
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Just look at that face! Sweet old beagle, Zoe.<br />
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"Hi, my name is Rachel, and I am a Mormon."<br />
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Beth Marie's. If you know, <i>you know.</i><br />
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Rocky, the pug.<br />
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Andy's (maternal) grandparents. MoMo seems to be disapproving of something that PoPo finds very funny. </div>
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Hope your Christmas was great, too. And Happy New Year! Any good resolutions this year? </div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14007118625373089798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3930819022710040387.post-31391127817846208852011-12-14T19:16:00.000-08:002011-12-14T19:16:43.043-08:00The Santa Myth<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've been thinking a lot about Santa lately. </div>
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Working with ESL students from places like Burma and Bhutan means that many of our students have not experienced Christmas like we celebrate it here in the U.S.--and many of them have not celebrated it (or even known anything about it) at all. Adults and children alike are fascinated by the story. Imagine trying to explain Christmas to someone (with limited English) who has never heard of it before: </div>
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"A special baby was born in a barn 2000 years ago, so now there's a fat old man in a red suit who flies all over the world in a car pulled by reindeer, one of whom has a red nose, and he lands on rooftops and goes down the chimney at night and gives presents to good kids, and we write letters to him and give him cookies and milk, but he's actually not real--but that's a secret, so don't tell your children. Oh, and there are little people that help Santa, and he lives at the North Pole, which is near Canada." </div>
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And yes, we have been focusing mostly on the secular side of Christmas. Not because we don't like Jesus, but because it's confusing enough without the religious side of it . . . "Happy Birthday, Jesus!" is about as deep as we get into that aspect (and even that really only works with the Christian refugees anyway). </div>
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So, I started thinking about my own relationship with the Santa Myth. I, like many, was introduced to Santa at a young age. There were certain things I never bought: I knew the Santa at the mall was not the <i>real</i> Santa (who was, of course, too busy making toys at the North Pole to go to malls--plus, it didn't make any sense that he could be at so many malls at the same time). I knew it wasn't logical for Santa to be able to travel all around the world in one night, but I had to factor in the different time zones, plus a good bit of magic (and he could skip the houses of the bad kids, and the ones who didn't celebrate Christmas), so that didn't pose too much of a problem, either. </div>
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One Christmas, we were vacationing in Florida, and I was very concerned that Santa wouldn't be able to find us. My parents calmly reassured me that he'd know where to find me--he followed these things very closely. I was similarly concerned that we didn't have a chimney, but I supposed that he could also come in through a window, or maybe the back door. We put out the cookies and milk, and when we woke up, they were gone, our stockings were stuffed, and there were new presents under the tree. I listened for the jingle bells, but never heard them. I looked out the window as I drifted off to sleep, but I never saw the glow of a red nose. </div>
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I realized the truth when I noticed that the wrapping paper, gift tags, and handwriting that Santa used were all the same as my mother's. My suspicions might have been fueled by other kids at school, or perhaps my (mean) older brother, but in any case, I eventually put all the pieces together. I don't remember feelings of betrayal; I don't even think that I cried. In my memory, I let that part of my childhood drift away, silently, and without protest. </div>
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I posed the question on Facebook to find out how some of my friends were brought into The Truth About Santa. There were some common themes: parental missteps, other kids at school, Some had parents who outright told them (or, in one case, a teacher). Andy, for example, was told The Truth, and we recently found out that his mother has been carrying guilt around for 20 years. She called to apologize a few weeks back, an hour after a conversation about Santa. </div>
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Now, I'm not a parent myself, but I find the whole Santa Myth to be a point of ethical confusion. Which is the greater crime, lying to your children, or robbing them of a childhood experience and rite of passage? (I suppose the answer to that is obvious to anyone who never believed in Santa, and much less so to anyone who ever did.) And if you choose to indulge in the fantasy, at what point do you pull the plug? Is it more damaging to dash your child's hopes, or to wait until someone in their (middle?) school does? </div>
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The truth of the matter is that Christmas is more fun when that hope of something magical exists. And while The Santa Myth does not make any sense at all, I'm sure we'll be passing it to our children. And as they grow older, I'm sure we'll be fighting to keep the hope alive in their little eyes . . . </div>
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P.S. It will be harder and harder to conceal <a href="http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20101224075446AAfIrjV">The Truth.</a> Thanks again, Internet. </div>
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